Comforting Children

Comforting children during times of emergency:

1. Reassure children by hugging and holding them.
2. Provide age appropriate information.
3. Keep them busy & optimize a sense of control. (A significant problem for all ages is a feeling of being out of control). Involve people in tasks that will help them feel part of restoring order & keeping their minds on doing something productive.
4. Praise & recognize responsible, helpful behavior.
5. Sing cheerful songs
6. Tell stories
7. Play games
8. Draw pictures & talk about what they’re drawing (kids will often express emotions through rawings).
8. Talk about what they will do when it is all over (call Grandma, play with friends, go out for ice cream together).


Having some items on hand will help children:

1. Individual Flashlights or light sticks— this will provide comfort, control, and a source of fun.
2. Paper & Crayons (for drawing, games, & writing to those not there such as grandparents & friends)
3. Treats
4. Balloons
5. Small toys
6. Picture of family
7. Photocopies of favorite primary songs (lighter then carrying the book and will help when you’re not in the state of mind to remember the words)

* A Comfort Kit containing these items make cute gifts from Grandparents, Aunts, etc.